Wednesday, November 30, 2011


Happy midweek ladies. We all know that I love my nephews even though my sisters and I do not have a good relationship, I adore my nephews; so, without further ado meet my newest

Jonathan Ray. Gotta love my boys.

I have finally started a little Christmas shopping, not much but hey so is better than nothing. I hope to really get going this weekend. Have you finished yet? Please pray for me a job, my job is all quote based and coming from a legal background I've never had a quota based job so I am failing miserably and they're looking for a new person and I'm looking for a new job. Please pray b/c I sure don't need the stress over my car note.

Happy Wednesday!

Tuesday, November 22, 2011


It's crazy to think that in two days I'll have 4 nephews, love my boys and one more wow....maybe one day we'll have a girl in the brew...(not holding my breath) hahahaha

I love my boys so I sure can't wait to meet the baby, even though I am not close to my sisters, I do love my boys.

Thursday I haven't decided if I am going to chill at the house and enjoy coffee and me time or drive down to Madina and see my sister and the babies room. We'll see, I can't wait to watch teh parade either way, maybe I'll go watch it with my nephews, that's always fun.

I will be working Friday so no black Friday shopping for me booo. :( I do hope to catch some deals Saturday with what the crowd didn't get.

So what's your holiday plans?

Happy Tuesday everyone!! What's your plans for the holiday?

Monday, November 21, 2011

My Two Cents, For What it's Worth

Okay ladies, I'm going to be blunt and honest and if I offend or you don't agree or like it, I apologize, but this is my opinion.

I loath racist people, seriously how can we (who are) call ourselves Christian yet judge so strongly someone just based on their skin color?

Yes, it's different in other parts of the country and world, but I live, was born and raised, and probably always will be in the South. Heck, let's talk facebook for a minute, I have never put a picture of me and my love on facebook for two reasons, 1. I like to keep it private, yes i blog about him, but seriously not nearly as many people read this blog, come on. 2. I like to keep somethings for myself.

But seriously, I was thinking on my 6+ hr drive home from seeing him last night, WHO CARES WHAT PEOPLE THINK. I am SOOOOO TIRED OF LIVING MY LIFE FOR OTHER PEOPLES APPROVAL. Tis why I stayed for 5 years with a man who called me whore, stupid, retard, hit me, put a gun to my head, chocked me, held me down against my will, told me his family would never speak to me again if they knew I'd dated a person outside of my racist.

When I started dating my ex, people were so happy, my Mom, my Dad, people at church, my Mom's friends, why, because he was the first white guy I'd ever dated since after high school.

Please tell me why that matters, if that's what your question is....then you must not live in the racisit South. I have lost friends and everything, been talked about, been called names all because i've dated someone who was not white.......but here's a really funny thing.....I'm not 100% white Grandfather is 100% Filipino, couldn't tell by looking at me, right? Who cares it's still my bloodline and I'm proud of who I am.

What I don't get the most is how people call themselves a Christian, sit in church every Sunday and listen to the word, yet, judge people based on the color of their skin. There is probably someone reading this who is thinking, gross, b/c I've dated outside my race or judging me, but may or may not admit it. I DON'T CARE ANYMORE !!!!

FOR THE FIRST TIME IN 6 YEARS, I am with someone who does NOT hit, call me retarded, stupid, whore, worthless and I love him for him, not the color of his skin and if you can't be my friend and accept that and still talk, associate, or be friendly to me well than that's your loss and I'd hate to have to answer to God, who people forget made us ALL!!!

Thank you and Happy Monday Ladies!!

Tuesday, November 8, 2011

So Many Kids!!

WOW!! They're having their 20th child!!!! OMG, enough already, I could not imagine having 6 kids led alone 20!!!! 2 is good, 3 I could do, but 20!!!!

I went to my nephews soccer awards last week and they were just so cute!!! I love those boys, I can't believe that in like 2 weeks I'll have a 4th nephew!!! WOW, I sure do love my boys.

Nathan and his award

Andrew and his friend and their trophies

and my buddy, Daniel

These boys make my heart melt, I couldn't imagine not having my nephews!!! Can't wait to meet Jonathan in just a few days!!! Yay!!